Here are links to some of my favorite information resources:
I Was In An Abusive Relationship And Didn't Know It, one woman's experience
Five Things You Need To Know About Narcissists. A podcast that is a no-holds-barred description of reality.
Toxic Relationship Patterns. A long-ish article but so complete and informative. This is why you two fight!
The Sociopath Next Door (a must read book!)
Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, & Other Sex Offenders (another must read!)
How A Narcissist Verbally Abuses
Why Couples Counseling Doesn't Work In Abusive Relationships
Getting Over A Narcissistic Mother
6 Signs of Narcissism You May Not Know About
Energy Vampires: Who They Are, And How To Ditch Them
You Can Get PTSD From Emotionally Abusive Relationships
Gaslighting: A Message From A Man to Women
When The Narcissist Becomes Dangerous